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Kasidie: Browser-based app with 10s of thousands of profiles. Easy to navigate with detailed profiles. Events and communities. Very popular.

Lifestyle Sites & Apps

ENM, Poly & Events

Fetish & Kink

Feeld: A dating app for the curious. Swipe-style connections in for every type of relationship. Best for finding people, poor messaging tech without many features.

Swingers Date Club: App & browser-based. OG swingers site. Easy to navigate and connect. Communities, events, and meeting those specifically looking to swing. More expensive than some other sites.

3fun: Connection app for those looking for group sex. Good search parameters. Usually more limited profiles. Good connections. Plenty of bots.

LifestyleLounge: App & browser based. Similar to Kasidie and SDC, with thousands of profiles and plenty of features. Hit and miss events and technology. Some say it’s where the “hot” people hang out.

SwingLifeStyle: App & browser-based. If you still use AOL, this is your new home! Inexpensive memberships.

Skirt Club: Ladies only. A place for bisexual and bi-curious women. In-person events.

Fetlife: Whatever you’re into, so is someone else. Explore any and all kinks at Fetlife. Awful technology. Awful search. But your kink connection has a profile here.

Plura: The go-to app for queer, sex+, growth-oriented, and alternative people to find their people. Big poly and ENM community. Best for finding online and in-person events.

This is not a comprehensive list of all lifestyle/ENM apps and sites. These are the outlets we have used and can recommend to find connections.